Peep the video here: 

http://www.tmz.com/2010/05/11/miley-cyrus-dirty-dancing-adam-shankman-movie-wrap-party-grind-so-you-think-you-can-dance/?mediaKey=c11e1305-3d2a-428c-82ad-16173abe25e0&isShareURL=true

Why??????????????? That's all I got.

If you're like most women, you have PROBABLY thought to yourself, hmmmm, I wonder if my boyfriend/husband has messed around with another woman and I don't know... could it be? I'm sure you've thought about it ONCE. Most of you probably thought you're just being paranoid, brushed it off as an insecure thought, and moved on. The rest of you who are still saying, hmm I'm really not sure... you need to read the rest of this. TEN signs he's cheating, and one technique to find out.

1. He's gone from being talkative to very quiet. Why worry about the change? Simple. He's cheating. Most guys fail miserably at lying on command so instead of telling you about his day and asking you about yours when he comes home, he locks it up out of fear of revealing too much.

2. Extensive absense. 3 hours to make a grocery store run. 2 hours to pick up your daughter from piano lessons. Starts coming home at 4am instead of 1am after his night with the guys. This is obvious.

3. He's late and EVERYTIME he has a reason ready for you. EVERYTIME. And he gives it to you without solicitation. And by the way, if the most common excuse is "I was working late"... he's cheating. No questions asked.

4. He tries to make you feel guilty about yourself. For any reason at all. You confront about ANYTHING, and immediately he goes on the offense... he's cheating.

5. Chit chat about the future stops. He used to talk all the time with you about his hopes for the future (marriage, kids, etc). But then that comes to a stop. That's because he doesn't see YOU as a part of his future anymore. If he can't answer the question, where do you see us in six months, it's because he does not seen an "us" in six months.

6. Grooming routine changes. If he suddenly changes his brand of deodorant or he suddenly starts wearing cologne when he never did before, worry.

7. Where's the money going? He's still getting a paycheck but doesn't have much to show for it anymore, it's because he has nothing to show YOU. It's going elsewhere. If your man is suddenly "short on money" on a regular basis, it's time to become suspicious.

8. Random phone calls, unknown emails, he doesn't have much to say about who it's all from. And especially if he works at "McDonalds"... time to worry, McDs is not the type to make work spill over into home life. So don't buy that crap.

9. If he cheated on another woman to be with you in the first place, that is an AWFUL sign. Men are creatures of habit. Like it or not, your man IS a cheater, he HAS the capacity to cheat. No matter what, if you entered into a relationship on this precedent, you have a problem on your hands.

10. If you're the jealous, crazy, insecure girlfriend who no matter what he does, you'll think he's a cheater, it's time for therapy. But if you're actually a sane person and have suspicions, the fact is... he's probably cheating and all you're doing is looking for confirmation. Don't waste your time. Kick him to the curb and find someone you can trust!

Did you read those ten items but you still want more confirmation?

I'm going to break guy code now (as if I haven't already by revealing those ten things). Go buy some panties, tuck them under the couch, and sometime when you two are together, pull them out and see what he has to say. If you have half a brain, you will know.

For the first time in YEARS I am sleeping very well. Why? Well I used to have a roommate who wanted to keep the house at less than 70 degrees. I'd wake up in the middle of the night shivering, my stomach agitated... argh, it was no fun. But now, I have a nice chill roommate who hasn't complained yet about me keeping the temp @ 75. Ahh, so perfect :-) I like it warm & cozy, maybe that's weird? No? I don't wake up with sweat dripping all over me in the morning, that'd be sad. But yes, good sleepin these days.

Ugh this week has sucked so much. I HATE MIDTERMS. If you could go ANYWHERE on vaca right now, where would you go? HAWAII!!!

I like their song! Listen for it on B-104. It's called Everybody In Love. These guys were runner ups on the 2008 season of The X Factor. Here's a video (it's not the music video) of them performing Everybody In Love. How much you wanna bet they're lip syncing?

I don't think anyone really took her seriously when she put out See You Again. But since then, Ms. Cyrus has definitely come a long way :)  Party In The USA was a huge milestone for her and IMO, so is her new song, When I Look At You. Check it out.

You've been waiting for it! Here it is, finally!!

Did you not think that delivering an apology with a monotone and fake delivery would bring you MORE scrutiny? No crap people are saying he was insincere. Tiger Woods, you're an idiot.

So it is my last year of college and I am READY to be done. Can you say senioritis? I have absolutely no motivation right now to buckle down and do my spanish homework. Or any other homework for that matter!!!!!

What do you do when you procrastinate?